Integrative and Distributive: The Combined Approach
How skilled negotiators blend value-creating and value-claiming strategies within a single negotiation.
The Negotiator's Dilemma
Every negotiation textbook teaches the distinction between integrative bargaining (expanding the pie through creative problem-solving) and distributive bargaining (claiming your share of a fixed pie). What textbooks spend less time on is the uncomfortable reality that every real negotiation involves both simultaneously. David Lax and James Sebenius called this the 'negotiator's dilemma' — the strategies that help you create value (sharing information, revealing interests, brainstorming openly) make you vulnerable to value claiming by the other side.
Consider a business partnership negotiation. Sharing your true priorities helps both sides find efficient trades. But if you reveal that you care deeply about one issue, the other side can extract concessions by threatening to block it. The tension between creating and claiming is not a problem to be solved — it's a permanent feature of negotiation that must be managed.